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How to set up a Windows Family Safety account for a child

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Microsoft provides powerful parental controls in the form of its Family Safety settings, but both guardians and children have to be enrolled online. Here’s a how to set up a safe and secure managed account for your child.

While the set-up process is a little involved, once configured, Microsoft Family Safety makes it easy to set and agree clear, helpful and healthy limits on the computer and internet use of young people in your care.

However, just turning parental controls on and hoping for the best isn’t a winning long-term strategy. It has to go hand-in hand with evolving conversations about online safety. It’s also important to be honest and explain that you are using content filtering. Even young children can understand that not everything on the internet is for them and that you’re filtering out things that might scare, trick or upset them.

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Step1

Search for your Microsoft account info

To start with, let’s make sure you’re logged into your Microsoft administrator account. Type “Your info” into the Windows search bar, click the “Your account info” result that shows up at the top.

Step2

Make sure you’re signed into your Microsoft account on Windows

To check, and check that you’re signed in on the account you expect to be. Make sure it shows an email address – this tells you that you’re using an online Microsoft account to, and that it lists you as “Administrator”.

Step3

Sign in to Microsoft Family Safety

Go tohttps://family.microsoft.com/and sign in using your Microsoft account – the one that your Windows license and is associated with, and which you use when signing in to Windows. If you have no associated family members, you’ll be prompted to create one immediately via a pop-up, but we’re going to take the conventional route – either close the pop-up or skip to step 3 to follow along with the tutorial.

Step4

Add another user

Click “Add a family member”, next to your own profile.

Step5

Enter their email address

If they have a phone number or email address, enter it here. If not, you’ll be invited to create a Microsoft Outlook email account for them. Any email address or phone number can be used, however. If your kids already have Microsoft accounts, for example for Minecraft or Xbox, then you should use the address associated with these.

Step6

Confirm the address

Click Next.

Step7

Choose their role

Set the user up a member or an organiser. If they’re a co-parent, guardian or other person you wish to give administrative powers to, they should be an organiser. Otherwise, select member here. I’m going to create a member account for child in the following steps.

Step8

Click Next

The Next button will turn green once you’ve chosen a role. Click it.

Step9

Confirm your humanity

Enter the captcha

Step10

Click Invite

And then click the Invite button.

Step11

Have your family member sign up

Your family member will receive an email at the account you added, inviting them to join Microsoft Family. They should click the Join now link.

Step12

They then click join on the website

The “Join now” link in the email will take them to the Microsoft family group account creation website. They should click Join now here, too.

Step13

Sign into your member’s Microsoft account

If there’s a Microsoft account already associated with the email address you invited, they’ll be prompted to sign in. Click Next and enter the password when prompted. If they don’t already have a Microsoft account, they’ll be prompted to set one up – click “Create one!” and follow the on-screen instructions to do so – their account details should be saved in a password manager.

Step14

Optional: Create an account

If they don’t have a Microsoft account they – or you – will have to create one. Click “Create one!”

Step15

Click Next on the Create account screen

Check that you have the address right and click Next

Step16

Create a password

Create astrong and memorable password– this should ideally be stored in a password manager but you may need to write it down while you’re working through account creation.

Step17

Click Next

Once you’re entered the password you want, click Next to confirm it.

Step18

Enter their name

Enter your child’s first and last name here. You can use a pseudonym for extra privacy.

Step19

Click Next

Once you’re happy with that, click Next.

Step20

Enter their date of birth

You’ll want to accurately enter your child’s date of birth here, as it affects both the content filtering options for their account and can appear as a security question if access to the account is lost.

Step21

Click Next

Once you’ve filled in their birthdate, click next.

Step22

Get an email verification code

A four-digit code will be sent to the email address associated with the account you’re creating. Copy this number.

Step23

Paste it in

And paste or type it into the next sign-up step in your browser. Untick the “I would like information, tips and offers about Microsoft products and services” box while you’re here.

Step24

Click Next

Tap the next button to verify.

Step25

Click Next when asked to prove you’re not a robot

Your member will be informed that they should solve a puzzle to prove they’re not a robot. Click Next here.

Step26

Solve the puzzle

This kid-friendly captcha alternative will ask them to identify an animal, fruit or similar. If your child if over 13, they should be signed in after completing this step. Go to step 36.

Step27

If your child is under 13, they’ll be asked to have you provide consent for their account. Click “I’m a parent or guardian”.

Step28

Click Continue

Once you’ve made a choice, you’ll be able to click Continue. Do do.

Step29

Enter your own Microsoft account email address

Step30

Click Next

Once you’ve done that, you’ll be able to click Next. Do so.

Step31

Opt for them not to stay signed in

They’ll be asked if they want to stay signed in. If you’re doing this set up via your account, click No.

Step32

Read the consent form. It’s short, informative and details exactly what information Microsoft will have and hold about your child.

Step33

Scroll to the second page, read it and, if you agree, type your name into the signature field.

Step34

Click Yes, I agree

Click the Yes, I agree button to give your consent to Microsoft holding data about your child.

Step35

Allow non-Microsoft apps

You’ll next be asked if you want to allow your child to be able to sign into non-Microsoft apps with their account. While this may allow some third parties to collect data as described in the box, it provides a better users experience. Tick the box.

Step36

Press Continue

The Continue button will now be clickable. Click it.

Step37

See default account settings and sign out

Your under-thirteen now has a Microsoft account and is part of your Family Safety group. Click Sign out to sign out of your own account and go to to Step 38.

Step38

For over-thirteens: Confirm that they want to join

Finally, Family Safety explains some of the things they’ll be able to do with their account, such as requesting that an adult buy them Microsoft Store software, opt to share their activity or location with family members, and have content filters and screen time limits set for them. They should click Join now, but there’s still time to switch to a different account if you need to.

Step39

Take a look at their member account

Your new user will be logged into their member account. Any Microsoft devices your member’s account is already logged into will appear here. If there are none, the next step is to connect a device. We’re going to use a Windows PC, but Windows PCs, Xbox consoles, and Android and iOS drives can all be connected to Microsoft Family Safety.

Step40

Open Windows user management

In Windows, use the taskbar search box to search for “add user”, then click on “Add, edit, or remove other users” in the results.

Step41

Find your member in Family & other users

Your new family member’s account name or email address should appear in your user list with text reading “can’t sign in” next to it.

Step42

Select them

Click on their account name.

Step43

Click Allow

Now click the Allow button that appears below their account name

Step44

Give your new family member access to Windows

Click allow again when asked to confirm that they should be allowed to sign in.

Step45

Log out of Windows

Press Ctrl-Alt-Delete and click “Sign out”.

Step46

Time to sign in as another user

You’ll find yourself at the Windows sign-in screen.

Step47

Select your new Windows user

Click once, anywhere on the screen and have your new user select their account name from the list at the bottom left. They should now click “Sign in”.

Step48

Have them sign in

A Microsoft account login box will appear, requesting them to enter their password. Do that, then click Sign in.

Step49

Configure their Windows account to use a PIN

They’ll be prompted to create a Personal Indentifiction Numer for login – this is a good idea, particularly if theirstrong master passwordis long or difficult to type. With that done, they’ll be logged into their new Windows account. This will take a few minutes as the new account is set up by Windows

Step50

Allow OneDrive backups

Backups are generally desirable and an automatic backup of key folders, such as Documents, can help avoid your kids losing any important files in case of hard disk failures. Select

Step51

Click Next

Read through the explanation and click Next.

Step52

Deny app location sharing

You’re about to be given lots of choices to make about Windows’ initial settings. It’s tedious, so you should do this by yourself for smaller children. For anyone below the age of majority, always consider configuring Windows’ account settings for maximum privacy. Select No when asked to “Let Microsoft and apps use your location”.

Step53

Click Accept

Click Accept to move on to the next question.

Step54

Deny inking and typing diagnostic data

Click no to prevent Microsoft from sending back data about how the user types or uses a stylus when writing.

Step55

Click Accept to move on

Click Accept.

Step56

Refuse tailored experiences

You don’t want Microsoft to record or base advertising on a child’s internet and computer use, so select No here.

Step57

Accept and move one

Click Accept to go to the next question.

Step58

Deny apps the ability to use advertising ID

More ad tracking here. Say no.

Step59

Click Accept

Click Accept to move on again.

Step60

Click Start

Having made it through that, click the Start menu when Windows’ main interface loads.

Step61

Open the user list

Click the user profile icon – the top icon on the narrow the left-hand column.

Step62

Select your account from the list

Click your own username to return to the login screen.

Step63

Log in

Click your user name at bottom left to log back into your own account. In this example, my admin account requires a PIN to log in.

Step64

Open your web browser

I’m selecting Microsoft Edge here.

Step65

Configure their access privileges

Go to tohttps://account.microsoft.com/family/. You should see your PC listed as connected to your new member’s. Click on your child’s member icon to configure their screen time, content filtering and access settings. You’ll have to do this for younger children, but most kids – and certainly tweens and younger teens – should be involved in configuration by mutual consent.

Now you’ve created accounts for your family members, I’ll take you through the ins and outs of Family Safety configuration and Microsoft Parental controls in my next tutorial.

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FAQs

Make sure your PC is connected to the internet and that you are logged in on your PC with the account that you’re using to manage Family Safety, as an administrator. If that’s all correct, click Add a family member to send another invitation.

No. Although Windows 7 allowed you to apply content filtering and parental controls to any account on the PC, managed Family Safety accounts now must be registered online with Microsoft.

No, they’re free, and adding extra accounts to a Windows system that you have a Windows license for is also free.

Microsoft Family accounts are limited to a total of six members and organisers.

Yes. Although children’s data is protected under UK law and Microsoft provides information on revoking consent for the company to handle the data of the children you’re responsible for, signing kids up for an online service always means that someone – Microsoft in this case – will have access to the data they generate. However, Family Safety means that you’ll be better able to manage your kids’ interacting with the online services they already use, making it a net benefit once the children in your care are old enough to have Microsoft accounts anyway.

No. I use one of my own Microsoft accounts to give my child controlled access to specific Microsoft services, and you can take the same approach in setting up your family controls. Keep an eye on which software purchases are associated with which accounts to avoid future angst, though. When your child is old enough to have their own software license keys, they should probably have their own account to hold them in, even if you don’t give them full control over it until they’re older.

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